Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Good.

With the worry about having to put scare quotes around our scare quotes whenever we talk about "good" or "conversation," we choose, instead of looking for exact definitions, to attempt the know-it-when-we-see-it approach.

This brings us to omegle.com. Why? Well the random nature of the conversations possible on a site with a tag like "Talk to Strangers!" offers an interesting way to experiment with what we want out of online conversation. While the site claims--"Omegle is a great way of meeting new friends"--is it? Is that even what we are looking for?


You're now chatting with a random stranger. Say hi!
Stranger: hi
You: howdy
Stranger: are you one of those creeps looking for girls in here?
You: nope
Stranger: great
You: just a girl in a class about computers
You: talking about whether or not omegle is worth it
Stranger: is it worth it?
You: probably not
You: thoughts?
Stranger: about omegle?
You: yeah
You: ever met anyone on here worth your time?
Stranger: um...
Stranger: no, not really
Stranger: mostly creeps
You: ever had a worthwhile conversation?
You: if not then why do you do it?
Stranger: omg ur right.. im waisting my life in here
Stranger: it's fun to talk to people from other places though
Stranger: it's intresting to get to know people from korea and australia
Stranger: i mean, i would meet them anywhere else
Stranger: wouldnt*
Stranger: so why not in here
You: makes sense
Stranger: yepp
Stranger: where you from?
Stranger: you dont have to answer, i was just thinking of ur spelling
You: Michigan in the US
Stranger: no waaaay
Stranger: lots of snow?
You: too much
Stranger: same here, snowed 10 inches over a night
Stranger: perfect snowboard weather though
Stranger: are you in class?
You: yeah
You: teacher chatting with me nao
Stranger: teall him/her i said hi
You: she says hi too
Stranger: thats great
Stranger: here in sweden its 02:11 am
You: procrastination
Stranger: i guess
You: how old are you?
Stranger: no no no, the question is. how old are YOU
You: 20... I guess
Stranger: so, your not sure eh?
Stranger: im 16
Stranger: well, i should go to sleep
Stranger: good luck in class
Stranger: was this conversation worthwhile?
You: yes
You: I think
Stranger: ^.-
You: have a good night
Stranger: i will, thank you
You have disconnected.


As a bit of a disclaimer, we had four or five conversations before this one where the topic was simply whether or not we were a girl and whether or not we were interested in men. Still, when answering the question--"Was this conversation worthwhile?"--I don't think we lied. One of the great opportunities of the internet is the access it provides individuals to other individuals all over the globe: from Michigan to Sweden. Somehow though, I spend far more time talking to people I know online--from email to facebook--than to anyone else. In better using the opportunities the internet provides, expanding individuals interactions beyond their own circle of friends is good.

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